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Vemale.com – Socializing is not always easy, but it can be done. Whoever you are, however your social character, all you need is to change your mind set and get used to it. Thus you do not have to feel awkward every time you meet new people or talk to people.
What set of minds should be changed and remembered? Well, before you start widening, learn the following things.
No Need to Worry With Others' Opinions
Everyone can argue. You just have to choose and sort out what it would be useful for you to input. Moreover, confident to be yourself. No one is perfect and you do not have to be perfect for others.
Deal with the moment of silence
There are times when you and he are silent because he does not know what else to say. Stay relaxed and try to train yourself to find topics that are neutral but not impressed. Motivating or positive topics, usually make your conversation more memorable. Or if you are quite humorous, warm jokes can melt the atmosphere.
Low Profile Not Low Self Esteem
You can be a person who is not self-assertive, but not inferior or feel less confident. No need to highlight your ability at the beginning. Stay low profile and keep doing something sincerely. That's when people judge you. Take it easy, first impressions are not the only barometer to judge a person.
Understand Environmental Norms
Know the rules of a community or social environment. This is important, because it can make you improvise the way you communicate with them. Do not rule out if you can use how to communicate from someone in a community. Every social environment actually inspires you to practice socializing skills.
Keep TryingDo not give up when you experience a stumbling block in one environment. You can try again or try a new environment. Not everyone has the same response to what we mean. Do not easily hurt, but also do not be stubborn to improve.
Socializing or communicating with others is a very profitable thing. Maybe not now, but in the future you will feel the benefits. Good luck and meet new people.
(vem / gil)