I write this in the midst of a busy writing scenario, not a scenario of infidelity. It's a movie scenario in the framework of my final assignment. I realize in my busy life, there is a continuous feeling of continuous shackling. I continue to be overshadowed by guilt, what effect? Yes, infidelity. Maybe for women, infidelity is an unusual thing. It hurts the duty of men.
While things hurt feelings are women's business. However, infidelity is not a common thing for all human beings, all its types. Is the affair wrong? Yes, obviously. I do not defend anyone for anything that is related to infidelity.
In an affair, the actor who started or accepts remains wrong. Whatever happens, acknowledge your mistake. Though all your reasons are unacceptable, because what? The reason you gave will remain wrong. The determinants of justice will say What's wrong with telling the truth, if bored, if you do not like, when it does not match, and what's wrong with the other.
The truth is, the affair knows that from their first gaze is wrong. The friendship between men and women is not pure. The spark of sweet flavors that spread to the heart will culminate and create the seeds of love and destroy all that has been built and keep with your partner for this. Realize, it does not just happen, your smile does not just expand because of praise or silliness, is not it?
Then, how? If you're thinking, stop it. Give your heart space and your mind to no longer think about it. Create a new atmosphere. Look at your partner, imagine what happens when you lose it, what if his face is crying knowing that it's not him again that the reason your smile is expanding, and where you have walked, how long has the struggle been done until this staged.
For those who are doing the affair, this will be difficult. I will not say that I understand your position. The position of self-cheating remains wrong. But getting that error faster would be better, would not it? Because as great as a squirrel jumps anyway it will fall too. As smart as you guys hide lies anyway will also be discovered, somehow how.
Realize, whatever the reason you are in this position right now is still wrong. How the fate of your relationship returns to your decision to choose. Stop listening to the opinions of others who justify your attitude or judge you, only yourself who knows the best answer for yourself. To whomever your choice is finally anchored, admit your mistake.
Your honesty will help your partner to accept your mistakes, know when they know not from you then wrath can no longer be avoided. Prepare a spacious heart, accepting the reality of how your spouse responds. The first step can be done, recognize how you feel about yourself, be true to yourself about what is in the heart to the previous partner, and when it has found its bright point, please disclose. Whatever happens fish can not swim in turbid water, right?
And, who has gone through a period of infidelity, how are you guys? Has decided the next life will be taken? Still crying over mistakes? Or still full of guilt? Make peace. Everyone has made a mistake, we are still human. The error will continue to be incorrect when not fixed. Make peace with your heart. Taking one step back will not leave you far behind.
Get some rest, who's your choice you've been on the wrong path. Keep on that path will make you tired, stay away and close your eyes for a moment. Inhale and exhale slowly, believe that your decision is the best choice for you, now. Time will heal your pain. Stay away from the various opinions that blame you, you know clearly your mistake. No, you do not need any justification. All you need now is to be ready for your world again.
Improve your attitude, prepare your heart to re-establish relationships with anyone. If it does return to the former partner, reassure him that it will not happen again. Resolve your attitude with him who becomes your friend more, thank you, because he once made you smile, never adorn your life, but assert yourself that the error can not be continued.Your life, your partner's life, and his life can not be run simultaneously. If you choose to live with your second choice, make sure that you will not cheat on anyone anymore. End your story with the previous one, acknowledge your mistake and let him respond to your attitude, accept it. Your life will continue with whoever you walk. Make peace!