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Establishing a relationship of romance or romance with someone we love is a very pleasant thing, if people say it's like the world belongs to us both (the other ngontrak all) hehehe. The days will be more colorful, more beautiful, and of course you will feel happy. Moreover if your partner revealed that want a more seirus relationship again, of course for you who do love it is very very wow news. But happiness will not be entirely if there are big obstacles facing, namely the absence of blessing from parents.
You should be more objective when you experience the above things, you also should not necessarily disobey the will of parents. The more serious the relationship you are, the parental blessing becomes a duty if you want a healthy relationship. Why do not you have to deny the will of the parents? Because the more you argue the more parents will not give his blessing.
Every orantua would want her son happy, not wrong in choosing a spouse. You need to see the good and bad sides of your spouse, from which you may find the best answer to the blessing that parents do not give. In addition, you can also do some things below:
Better Communication And More Open With Parents
With good and open communication then you will find what the parents really want.
Ask why the parent did not approve it
If it is a truth then you do not have to continue the relationship again, you need to think that the will of the parents is the best. But if the parent's reason is an untruth (and you are sure to know), then you explain slowly and your partner also needs to prove that it is not true.
Find Out the Objective Facts About Couples
You need to find data and facts about your spouse, either through friends or from your lover's neighbor, etc. From there you can assess whether the relationship is worth fighting for or not.
Improve what can be improved
A mistake will certainly make a person will learn not to repeat it again. If there is a couple mistake that the parent thinks is incorrect then your job is to tell the couple that the error should be stopped. If your partner is good for you then he will do it, if you do not want then be assured that he is not created for you.
Take Decision With Feelings
Do not make decisions because of emotions and ignore the reality. Wear a feeling that you get the right decision.
Do not Hate Parents for His Decisions
evil parent would not bear to see his son suffered. So take the positive side of what the parents want.
Be patient, then there will be the best path to the problem. Do not forget to ask the Lord for guidance in deciding and hopefully given the best solution.
Those are some things you need to do if you have a relationship that does not get the blessing of parents, may be useful for you.