Being a parent is the best job people ever do, but if not done in a good way then being a parent can sometimes be a terrible thing. When you are gifted with a baby, you will begin to undergo a cycle consisting of watching, anxious, and awakened with fear. In fact, your fear of parenting does not need to happen, because all you have to do is just enjoy what God has granted you.
As a parent is indeed natural and would want his son to be a useful person for anyone. But sometimes there are fears when parents should educate and nurture the child until the baby is an adult. What are the parents' fears when nurturing and educating children? These include:
Parents will be anxious and even afraid that until their children down the bad attitude you have. For example, parents experience a divorce, then what you fear is the child will experience the same thing. But you should not think so because it is only an allegation that does not necessarily happen in the future. Before any psychoanalytic findings, these declining traits or habits are considered normal.
The second fear is about illness. Often you hear news broadcasts of horrific diseases that take children, or see the agony of other parents whose children are seriously ill, your heart becomes shrunken and unceasingly praying, ask your children and family to be kept away from the disease. What you should do is maintain the health and nutrition of your baby rather than worry about it. Praying is mandatory, but lest you become frightened, because it will only hinder you in educating the child.
Furthermore, you are afraid if you scold the child. For example, when there is a holiday weekend and was with the child watching television at home and your child watching his favorite movie, after the movie runs out and the child became crying for not wanting to stop watching the movie, because it was persuaded but the child still crying so make you get angry. It really does not need to happen if you are a creative parent, because now any movie can be opened and viewed via youtube on android. In essence, as a parent is required to be creative against child whining.
Generalizing with someone else's child is the next fear. Suppose your child is time to walk but it has not, while the neighbor's children already. You become afraid of it, but every child grows and develops not the same. After all, if you've both grown up (between your child and a neighbor child) can still run together right? This kind of fear is unnecessary, which needs to be considered is the child's health and nutrition must be balanced so that children grow in accordance with expectations.
Afraid of not being able to support the children's school. As long as you have the will and effort, there will be results. This is the author's personal experience, where his parents are a farmer and sometimes a motorcycle taxi driver, but his two sons are able to study undergraduate degrees.
The next one is afraid of an accident child at home. Earlier you never noticed, that coffee table, recliner or bookshelf is a component of danger zone previously known as family room. The fear that the author thinks is something positive because you will be more careful in putting the items so that children do not have an accident.
As the writer said early, just enjoy every moment in nurturing and educating the child. Make your fear as a motivation to do the best for the baby. May your baby grow and develop into a useful person for anyone and everywhere. A short article from the author, may be useful.